Confidence & Self-Esteem Rituals
Rooted in Worth, Aligned with Truth
Confidence doesn’t always roar. Sometimes it whispers through the quiet moments when I choose myself. When I set a boundary. When I show up in a space without shrinking. When I allow my truth to take up space in my voice, my body, my decisions. That’s what these rituals are about—tending to the roots of self-worth so your truth can rise.
Confidence and self-esteem rituals create energetic containers to release shame, unworthiness, and outdated beliefs that distort how we see ourselves. This work clears the fog of comparison, people-pleasing, and perfectionism. It brings us back to center. To what’s real. These rituals remind us that confidence isn’t something we earn—it’s something we return to.
This isn’t about becoming louder or more extroverted. It’s not about forcing yourself into spaces that don’t feel aligned. This work honors the quiet strength of your presence. The truth in your stillness. The softness of your no. You can be grounded, sensitive, observant, and still be radiant with confidence. There is no one way to embody worthiness.
Perhaps you feel called to this work because you constantly second-guess yourself or find it hard to trust your instincts. You may struggle to speak up, apply for opportunities, or allow yourself to be seen. Maybe you’ve built your life around proving your worth to others. Maybe you’ve been performing strength for so long that you forgot what it feels like to be secure in your softness. For those of us who’ve had to hide parts of ourselves to survive—due to culture, trauma, neurodivergence, or lived experience—this work is a reclamation.
There were seasons when I thought confidence meant pushing harder. Performing louder. But that energy burned me out. I kept trying to become who I thought I had to be instead of honoring who I already was. The moment I shifted that, everything opened. Confidence started to feel like peace. Like breath. Like remembering. That’s the energy I now hold space for in this work.
Examples of Confidence & Self-Esteem Rituals I offer:
- Mirror work paired with spoken incantations to shift inner dialogue and build self-recognition
- Ritual baths using herbs, oils, and affirmations that cleanse doubt and anchor presence
- Personalized meditations to reconnect with the self beyond fear, shame, or external expectation
- Guided ancestral work to help heal inherited beliefs tied to worthiness and self-trust
- Spellwork or energetic support before interviews, performances, or boundary-setting conversations
Real-life moments that spark this ritual work might look like preparing for a big life transition, recovering from heartbreak or betrayal, standing at the edge of a new chapter, or simply realizing you no longer want to abandon yourself to keep the peace. Some people arrive in this space after years of hiding. Others come because they’ve never been allowed to fully know themselves. Every reason is valid.
Resistance often shows up when this work begins. That’s natural. It’s okay if you feel unsure. That’s often where the real shift begins. These rituals evolve with you. Sometimes all it takes is one breath, one choice, one sacred moment of returning to yourself. We don’t rush the process. We honor the unfolding.
For confidence and self-esteem rituals, I work with herbs, colors, and flowers that activate the solar plexus, strengthen energetic boundaries, soothe emotional wounds, and invite the spirit to remember its wholeness. Below are aligned options you can weave into ritual baths, candle work, altar building, anointing oils, or smoke clearing:
Herbs:
- Calendula – gently warms and lifts the spirit, restores self-trust
- Rosemary – clarity, strength, and energetic protection; sharpens inner knowing
- Lemongrass – clears stagnation, boosts courage and focus
- Basil – draws in love and favor, amplifies personal magnetism
- Bay Leaf – powerful for affirmations, releasing doubt, and sealing confidence intentions
- Cinnamon – energizing and empowering, builds inner fire
- Ginger – awakens boldness and stimulates forward movement
- Yarrow – helps with emotional boundaries, especially for highly sensitive folks
- Dandelion Root – supports emotional release and deep-rooted self-expression
Flowers:
- Sunflower – radiates joy and unapologetic self-expression; solar plexus amplifier
- Marigold (Calendula) – confidence through compassion and spiritual alignment
- Rose (especially yellow or orange) – softens the heart while encouraging self-love and trust
- Geranium – balances emotional states and brings grounded vitality
- Peony – opens the heart and supports worthiness in receiving love and abundance
- Hibiscus – sensual power, self-assurance, and playful embodiment
Colors:
- Yellow – solar plexus energy, joy, courage, self-worth
- Gold – divine self-recognition, royalty, worthiness, spiritual authority
- Orange – creative confidence, emotional freedom, sensual vitality
- Pink – soft empowerment, self-love, and emotional restoration
- White – purification and return to truth
- Green – heart-healing, growth, and a sense of enoughness
If you’re building a ritual bath, try calendula, rose petals, a splash of ginger or lemongrass infusion, and a yellow or gold candle at your side. If you’re doing mirror work, wear something orange or gold, anoint your pulse points with basil-infused oil, and place a sunflower or marigold on your altar.
These rituals weave together spiritual guidance, ancestral wisdom, energy attunement, and intuitive reflection to support you in reclaiming your worth. We name what needs to be released, amplify what wants to rise, and set the tone for a more embodied relationship with self.
Confidence and Self-Esteem Rituals are part of the Visionary Guidance offerings at Healing through Visions. When you book a Visionary Guidance appointment, you’ll choose your session length, and we’ll begin the vetting process to make sure this work aligns with what you need.